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7 No Frills Ways To Practice Self Care When You’re Feeling Crap

01/05/2019

There are times when you need a self care day full of face masks, bubble baths and lighting every candle you own. 

Which in my case is quite a lot! 

But there are also days where you need to practice a bit of no frills self care where you actually look after yourself and your space. 

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I’ll be the first to admit that when I’m struggling with my depression all I want to do is lay in bed and stare at the ceiling. Maybe with a Netflix documentary or ebook playing in the background. 

But the harsh truth is doing that doesn’t help me in the slightest!

I won’t get a shower, brush my teeth, eat anything or even drink most of the time; all of which makes me feel like a failure and has me sinking even further into depression and negative thoughts. 

So recently I’ve been forcing myself to practice little but essential acts of self care when I feel like this, and its actually helped me more than I expected.

Self Care Tip #1: Eat something healthy 

If I eat at all when I’m feeling down, its usually junk food. 

Having an eating disorder makes meal times difficult enough to begin with, but trying to force myself to eat something I don’t actually like or enjoy when I’m feeling crap usually doesn’t go well. 

[Related: 4 Things You Might Not Know About Eating Disorders]

However I’ve really been trying to improve my diet this year. Not because I’m trying to loose weight, but to help some of my medical condition. I have IBS (irritable bowel syndrome) as well as natural iron and vitamin deficiencies. 

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Normally those two are really easy to treat with supplements, but as we found out when I was 3/4 years old my body rejects those every time I try to take them – which is NOT a pleasant experience! 

I’ve found a few easy to do but (relatively) healthy dishes that I can cook when I’m like this. Vegetables with rice and fish cakes is one of my favorites right now. 

Self Care Tip #2: Drink some water

You’d think experiencing how awe full dehydration is when I was anorexic would be enough to make sure I never have to go through it again, but no – I’m always forgetting to drink any when I’m struggling. 

This might seem like an odd thing to mention when talking about self care, but looking after your physical health is a key way to practice it.

Try to keep a large bottle of water near you at all times and regularly sip from it, even when you don’t feel like you need a drink. My doctor once told me that by the time you actually feel thirsty, you’re already past the point where you should have had something to drink. 

Not sure how true it is but its something that’s stuck with me ever since.

If you struggle to remember then you could set a reminder or timer to go off  every 20 minutes or so, until it eventually becomes a habit.

Self Care Tip #3: Do the housework you’ve been putting off

I’m one of those very strange people who actually enjoys doing the housework. 

It helps me feel organized and productive plus I love having a tidy space – clutter genuinely stresses me out! 

The problem is I don’t usually have the energy to do any of it when I’m feeling crap. However I try to force myself to do as much as I can, even if it takes me all day and I have to take a break between each task. 

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I have a little order that I usually work in, mostly because having a routine helps me get things done and also because it leaves the “bigger” jobs until the end when I’ve got into the right mentality. 

I usually start off my putting a wash in before putting away any clothes that might be sat on my office chair. I’ll then put away anything that’s I’ve left lying around before dusting and spraying some lavender scented febreeze on the curtains and furniture. 

[Related: 4 Ways To Be Productive When You’re Having A Low Energy Day]

Then if its been a while since I last did it I’ll Hoover up and change my bedding, something that is extremely difficult to do on your own when you’re only 5’0” and severely asthmatic!

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#4: Brush your teeth

I know it sounds gross but when I mentioned this in a previous post, a lot of people admitted that its one of the first things they neglect when they’re feeling depressed. 

No matter how bad you feel, try to keep your basic hygiene routine going. It might seem insignificant at the time but it will only add to your negative self image and thoughts.

#5: Have a shower

Speaking of hygiene, getting a shower is something I always try to do as it can leave me feeling so much better afterwards. 

I’ve always loved being in the water and as a little kid it was almost impossible to get me out of the bath once you put me in it. 

I used to stay in for hours at a time, just topping up the hot water when it started to get cold! 

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Getting a quick wash and then getting dressed afterwards (rather than getting back into my pjs) can really help my mood. 

Plus once I’m dressed I’m less likely to just go lay in bed! 

Little witch tip: citrus scents are great making you feel energized and can increase mood and motivation. Try getting washed with an orange or lemon scented soap/shampoo – its a trick I use all the time and I swear by it!

#6: Answer your texts 

I either answer your message in 0.25 seconds or in 3-5 business days – and that’s when I’m not struggling with depression! 

When I am? It can easily be a week before I get back to someone. Not only does this make me feel like a shit friend, but I then feel really awkward and anxious when I finally do text them. I never know what to say; should I answer their original text or just start a whole new conversation?

Luckily my friends are really understanding and they know that it’s nothing personal, it’s just that communication is hard enough for me at the the best of times. 

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But it’s important to try to make yourself answer your texts or at the very least send out a message saying you’re having a bad time and you’ll get back to them when you’re feeling better. 

Talking to your friends can be a great form of self care, and there have been times when I’ve made myself talk to someone about what I’m feeling and they’ve ended up making me feel so much better. 

It’s basically free therapy!

#7: Get some fresh air

You don’t even have to leave your house if you don’t feel up to it. 

Just stand at your door for a few minutes or open the window to air out your room and let some fresh air in. 

If you do feel up to it and its actually sunny for once, try to spend a little time out in the sun and soak up some vitamin D; which helps with mood and energy. 

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Self care is important and something you should try to incorporate into your daily routine, but sometimes you need to give yourself a mental kick up the butt and look after yourself and your space. 

Which in itself is a form of self care.

What kind of no frills self care do you practice when you’re feeling crap? 

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7 No Frills Ways To Practice Self Care When You’re Feeling Crap

22 responses to “7 No Frills Ways To Practice Self Care When You’re Feeling Crap”

  1. I definitely find basic things like brushing my teeth, having a shower even just brushing my hair and washing my face really help. Some great tips here.

  2. BooksNest says:

    Some really brilliant tips, self car is so important!

  3. Bettie says:

    Lovely tips. So simple but so effective. I always go outside when I am feeling down.

  4. Great tips! I find getting out always helps me x

  5. I did a post a couple of years ago about basic self care and those are the things we often overlook when we’re having really bad mental health days or just a crap time in general! All of these things are so simple but it’s so easy to neglect them. Getting some fresh air definitely helps! Although when I’m having a REALLY crap day, I usually go for junk food because I know it’ll make me feel better and it’s a treat. It’s usually McDonald’s, which is the unhealthiest of the lot! But that works for me 🙂 x

  6. Great post! I think we sometimes feel that self-care has to be some long, drawn out routine and we get overwhelmed. Thanks for pointing out this simple but important tips!!

  7. Mya Taylor says:

    Very relatable and helpful post. Something that helps me to unwind and instantly shifts my mood is listening to music. I’m rocking Adele, Ella Mai, Beyoncé, or Taylor Swift when I want to either feel energetic or calm. Also a diehard tea lover, a warm cup of tea instantly soothes me. Thanks for sharing…🌹

  8. I love how you mention eating healthily and getting hydrated because I find it’s one of the most important things we can do in self-care, and is often overlooked! For me – I love reading but I don’t get enough time to read, so when I’m feeling low I just curl up on a sofa with a cuppa and a good book!

  9. I love that you’ve shared this blog post as I am a massive lover of self-care and self-love. I adore all of your little tips, I’m more than sure they’re going to help so many people, sending you all of the love! 🌸💜

    With love, Alisha Valerie x | http://www.alishavalerie.com

  10. sunshinesarahxo says:

    Yup definitely. Sometimes after working a long shift or having a week of night shifts (like this week!) the last thing i feel like doing is all the sh!t i haven’t had time to get around to when i finally have some time off! 😴😴 i know it’s all good when it’s done but does feel like an insurmountable mountain at times! LOL!

    Thanks for the tips i shall put them into practice! Xo

  11. I like how achievable these actions are. Baby steps in the right direction. I was reading, recently, how well people demanding you practice self-care, can make things worse when, what we really need, is community care. BUT, I do think these are little things which may elevate you and begat a little contentment.

  12. Katie says:

    I do need to drink more water and I know it makes me feel better I just don’t!

    Katie xx
    http://www.katienor.com

  13. These are some really great tips and they are sure to help people suffering through the low times. Thanks for sharing your personal journey with us!

  14. I LOVE this list! Self care is so important, but you’re right, it’s not all just bubble baths and face masks. My favorite on the list that I do is clean. I hate cleaning and tidying up, but when I force myself to do it, it really does help my mood. Just by viewing my clean and tidy surroundings, it makes me feel more put together than I actually am, haha.

    Lovely post!!

    xoxo Emily

    https://www.thatweirdgirllife.com

  15. Tajinder says:

    Love the practicality, bit size snippets to getting back on track. Cleaning up my space always puts me in a better mindset – clutter definitely stresses me out. Followed by a relaxing bath, it’s a great refresher. As it lifts my mood and makes me feel like I can conqeur anything. I just need to remind myself to drink more water. Once I’ve finished the bottles on my side table, I can be lazy at times to get up and refill which only hinders my own health.

    These are great reminders dear, keep shining!

    Tx. // Tajinder Kaur

  16. brianatrev says:

    Honestly yes, when your life is more in order it always feels so much better!

    Briana
    https://beyoutifulbrunette.com/

  17. These are great tips, I already try and use a lot of these when I’m feeling low! That’s a great idea of having an order when you clean, I actually quite enjoy house work but sometimes just don’t have the motivation/energy, a routine would help me. I think having a wash and putting clean clothes on helps me the most; some days I don’t want to get in the shower or change out of my pyjamas but feel gross, so I try to at least wash my face and put on some clean comfy clothes to feel a little better!

  18. So many great tips! I’ve been going through a really rough period lately and small steps like this have helped so much. I might not be able to fix the bigger issues, but I can do a quick tidy, brush my teeth, and drink some water! <3

  19. Great tips. Just get up and get moving. Push through it. It gets easier.

  20. angel says:

    I think people often forget that the no frills self care things like these are the most important ones to build a good foundation of self care. Self-care is necessary – bubble baths and face masks are pampering (fun, enjoyable, and luxurious; not really necessary). I love your points!

  21. Ok, I LOVE THIS! It’s literally the most simple fixes that really help you feel better. I know when I have an episode I literally avoid doing the EVERYTHING including showering and brushing my teeth but I always seem to feel a little better after doing so.

    ❤️Cynthia

    https://curatedbycynthia.com/

  22. Great list. Self care doesn’t always have to be extravagant to do what it is meant to do.

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